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Alastair Duhs is a relationship and anger management counsellor located in Takapuna, Auckland, New Zealand. He can conduct sessions face-to-face or via Skype. For more information, contact Alastair.

Is My Relationship Over? 6 Clear Signs That It May Be Time To Break Up

​​​Is My Relationship Over? 6 Clear Signs That It May Be Time To Break Up​How do you know if your relationship is over?This is a question that doesn’t have an easy answer-yet it is something that many people in relationships struggle with.As a relationship counsellor one of my main tasks is to help couples learn

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Surviving Infidelity-Top Tips From A Relationship Expert

Surviving Infidelity-Top Tips From A Relationship Expert Table Of Contents 1Steps for The Person Who Has Been Unfaithful2Step 1: End The Affair3Step 2: Be As Transparent As Possible4Step 3: Understand How The Affair Came About5Steps for The Person Who Has Been Betrayed6Step 1: Deal With Your Shock And Rage7Step 2: Avoid Punishing Your Partner8Step 3:

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Is Resentment Wrecking Your Relationship?

​Is Resentment Wrecking Your Relationship? How to Turn Things AroundIs Resentment Wrecking Your Relationship? How to Turn Things Around Is Resentment Wrecking Your Relationship? How to Turn Things Around “Resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die. ” -Carrie Fischer It’s been referred to as the cancer of relationships. It’s

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7 Effective Ways to Improve Communication In Your Relationship

Every relationship has its tough moments. These moments don’t necessarily mean you no longer love each other. Many times common issues in relationships (such as what to spend money on, how to parent the children effectively, whose turn it is to do the housework, and so on) aren’t to blame either. Many couples struggle simply

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