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Alastair Duhs is a relationship and anger management counsellor located in Takapuna, Auckland, New Zealand. He can conduct sessions face-to-face or via Skype. For more information, contact Alastair.

What Makes A Relationship Last? A Science Based Answer

​​​​What ​Makes ​A ​Relationship ​Last? A ​Science ​Based ​AnswerWhy do some relationships last-and others fail?It’s a question that many couples have when they come into my office. Are we right for each other? Should we work on our relationship, or should we go our separate ways? And, by the way, how do we make this …

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Is My Relationship Over? 6 Clear Signs That It May Be Time To Break Up

​​​Is My Relationship Over? 6 Clear Signs That It May Be Time To Break Up​How do you know if your relationship is over?This is a question that doesn’t have an easy answer-yet it is something that many people in relationships struggle with.As a relationship counsellor one of my main tasks is to help couples learn …

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Surviving Infidelity-Top Tips From A Relationship Expert

​​Surviving Infidelity-Top Tips From A Relationship Expert​It is is one of the most traumatic events that can happen in a marriage. Infidelity of any type (emotional or physical) tears at the foundation of any marriage and challenges both partners to question the basis of their union. For many marriages the strain an incident of unfaithfulness of …

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The Number One Thing That Couples Argue About

​The Number One Thing That Couples Argue About (Hint: It’s Probably Not What You Are Thinking!)As a relationship counsellor many people ask me the following question: What is the number one thing that couples argue about? If you Google this question, the most common answer that comes up is: Sex, money and kids. Usually in that order! However, is …

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Is Resentment Wrecking Your Relationship?

​Is Resentment Wrecking Your Relationship? How to Turn Things AroundIs Resentment Wrecking Your Relationship? How to Turn Things Around Is Resentment Wrecking Your Relationship? How to Turn Things Around “Resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die. ” -Carrie Fischer It’s been referred to as the cancer of relationships. It’s …

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7 Effective Ways to Improve Communication In Your Relationship

Every relationship has its tough moments. These moments don’t necessarily mean you no longer love each other. Many times common issues in relationships (such as what to spend money on, how to parent the children effectively, whose turn it is to do the housework, and so on) aren’t to blame either. Many couples struggle simply …

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