Create a Calmer, Happier, And More Loving Relationship – Starting Today
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30 Years Experience
15,000 Clients Helped
Simple, Proven + Effective
Every Relationship Faces Challenges
Arguments, misunderstandings and emotional distance can leave many couples feeling frustrated and disconnected.
But tough times don’t have to define your relationship.
With the right guidance, you can reduce conflict, improve communication, rebuild trust and reconnect with the love that brought you together.
Whether it’s constant conflict, lost intimacy or feeling stuck in a cycle of negativity, expert relationship counselling provides the tools and support you need to create real change.
Together, we’ll uncover what’s holding you back, strengthen your bond and help you build the loving, fulfilling relationship you deserve.
You’re not alone—take the first step today.
You Can Create A More Loving, Passionate And Connected Relationship
Hello. I'm Alastair Duhs.
Hi, I’m Alastair Duhs, and I'm a relationship counsellor based in Sunnynook, Auckland. I am also the host of the "Anger Secrets" and "Daily Relationship Tips" podcasts.
For over 30 years, I’ve helped thousands of couples overcome ongoing conflicts, improve communication and create calmer, happier and more loving relationships.
As an experienced relationship counsellor, I specialise in helping couples overcome challenges and create stronger, more fulfilling connections.
My goal is simple: To provide you with the tools and insights you need to navigate tough times, deepen your bond and create the relationship you truly want.
Whether you’re facing constant arguments, poor communication or just want to reconnect, I’m here to guide you every step of the way.
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Years Experience
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Over 15,000 Clients Seen
Will relationship counselling help you create a more loving, passionate and connected relationship?
What Others Say:
Without any shred of exaggeration, my experience with Alastair was by far the best.
Over the years, I believe that I have seen a total of 7-8 counsellors. Without any shred of exaggeration, my experience with Alastair was by far the best. He was extremely helpful and he really truly did change my situation at the time completely into a positive direction. I will never forget what he did for me, and all I need to do is think about him and it renews my faith in people and that they can care and make a difference and things can change.
Sonya
Alastair, your counselling skills are exceptional and I never felt judged by you.
Alastair, your counselling skills are exceptional and I never felt judged by you. You made me feel comfortable and safe to open up about my feelings. You were able to help me identify what was really causing issues in our relationship and gave us practical tools to work through them. Thank you for helping my partner and I communicate better and ultimately save our relationship."
Mike
Alastair has an amazing ability to make you feel comfortable, safe and cared for.
Alastair has an amazing ability to make you feel comfortable, safe and cared for. I have learnt so much from him about communication and how to navigate through tough times in my relationship. My partner and I now have a stronger and more loving relationship thanks to Alastair's guidance.
Karen
Relationship Counselling Will Help You:
Eliminate Anger, Arguments and Conflict
Rekindle Romance
Avoid Separation Or Divorce
Communicate More Effectively
Overcome Affairs And Infidelity
Create A More Passionate Sex Life
It's Time To Create The Happy, Loving Relationship You Deserve
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The Best Investment You'll Ever Make...
Choosing to work on your relationship is one of the most important decisions you’ll ever make. It’s an investment not just in your connection as a couple, but in your emotional well-being, your family’s happiness, and your future together.