I Help Couples Create Calmer, Happier And More Loving Relationships

Take this quick quiz to find out how relationship counselling will help you create the relationship you really want to have.

30 Years Experience

15,000 Clients Helped

Simple, Proven + Effective

All Couples Go Through Tough Times

Do you and your partner argue too often?

Are you and your partner stuck in a rut-living more like flatmates than lovers?

Do you and your partner struggle to communicate about the really important issues

Have you and your partner stopped having fun with each other-or worse, stopped talking at all?

If you have answered "YES" to any of these questions, then you are not alone.

Although it is difficult to admit, relationship problems such as these very common.

Whatever the state of your relationship, the good news is that you and your partner CAN create a better relationship. 

It may take a little time, but you can rekindle the love that bought you together and make your relationship the best it has ever been.

You Can Create A More Loving, Passionate And Connected Relationship

Hello. I'm Alastair Duhs.

I am a relationship counsellor based in Sunnynook, Auckland.

I have had over 30 years experience helping over 15,000 men and women create happier, more loving and passionate relationships.


Years In Private Practice


Over 15,000 Clients Seen

Will relationship counselling help you create a more loving, passionate and connected relationship?

What Others Say:

Over the years, I believe that I have seen a total of 7-8 counsellors. Without any shred of exaggeration, my experience with Alastair was by far the best. He was extremely helpful and he really truly did change my situation at the time completely into a positive direction. I will never forget what he did for me, and all I need to do is think about him and it renews my faith in people and that they can care and make a difference and things can change.


Past Client

Alastair, your counselling skills are exceptional and I never felt judged by you. You made me feel comfortable and safe to open up about my feelings. You were able to help me identify what was really causing issues in our relationship and gave us practical tools to work through them. Thank you for helping my partner and I communicate better and ultimately save our relationship."


Past Client

Alastair has an amazing ability to make you feel comfortable, safe and cared for. I have learnt so much from him about communication and how to navigate through tough times in my relationship. My partner and I now have a stronger and more loving relationship thanks to Alastair's guidance.


Past Client

Relationship Counselling Will Help You:

Eliminate Anger, Arguments and Conflict

Rekindle Romance

Avoid Separation Or Divorce

Communicate More Effectively

Overcome Affairs And Infidelity

Create A More Passionate Sex Life

It's Time To Create The Relationship You Really Want To Have

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The Best Investment We Have Made...

Attending relationship counselling may be the best investment you have ever made-leading to years of happiness and fulfilment with your partner you would otherwise not have got.

Don't wait to create the relationship you truly desire. You can create a calmer, happier, and more loving relationship for you and your partner.

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Invest in your relationship NOW. Your future self will thank you for it!