Relationship Counselling LP

I Have Helped Over 6,500 Individual and Couples Create Happy, Healthy and Loving Relationships

Hello, I'm Alastair Duhs

Alastair Duhs

Want to end the conflict, distance or arguments that have been keeping you unhappy for years?

Book a Relationship Counselling Session (or FREE 15 minute phone consultation) with me now.

All Couples Go Through Tough Times

  • Do you argue with your partner almost every day?
  • Are you and your partner stuck in a rut-living more like flatmates than partners or lovers?
  • Are you and your partner too focused on your own lives to spend time with each other?
  • Have you and your partner stopped having fun with each other-or worse, stopped talking at all?
  • Is your sex life unfulfilling or non-existent?
  • Do you lie awake at night wondering how much longer your relationship will last?

If you have answered "YES" to any of these questions, then you are not alone. Although it is difficult to admit, relationship problems such as these very common.

Whatever the current state of your relationship, the good news is that you and your partner can create a better relationship. It may take a little time and work, but you can help you rekindle the love that bought you together in the first place and help you make your relationship the best it has ever been.


  • Being as excited about your relationship as you were when you first met
  • Learning simple tools to stop arguments and to really communicate again
  • Being able to understand where your partner is coming from-rather than debating the issues with him or her, or becoming defensive
  • Having the skills to keep your temper with your partner in an argument-no matter what he or she says 
  • Regaining your trust in your partner, even if he or she has had an affair
  • Building much greater levels of intimacy in your relationship-so that your partner is your lover and your best friend.

With one simple decision, you can have any of these-and more.

Relationship Counselling Will Help You:

Stop Anger, Abuse and Violence

Anger is a destructive force in many relationships. I have had 20 years experience teaching people how to manage anger and stop abuse and violence.

Rebuild Communication

Good communication is essential for a good relationship. I can help you develop better listening and speaking skills, as well as ways to work through difficult issues in your relationship.

Overcome Affairs and Infidelity

Rebuilding a loving and trusting relationship is a major challenge after an affair (or infidelity of any kind). I can help you navigate this difficult and troubled journey.

Rekindle Romance

Romance and passion can easily die off in a relationship. I can help you rebuild the romance that you felt in your early days with each other.

Avoid Separation and Divorce

Many relationships and marriages end in unnecessary separation or divorce. Talking about relationship issues can help you avoid this unnecessary outcome.

Develop Closeness and Intimacy

Feelings of warmth, love and intimacy can die down in a relationship. I can help you rebuild your levels of closeness and intimacy with each other.

Hello. I'm Alastair Duhs.

I am a relationship counsellor based in Auckland, New Zealand. I have had over 20 years experience helping couples create happy, peaceful and loving relationships.

25 Years

25 Years In Private Practice

6,500 Clients

Over 6,500 Men and Women Seen

What Past Clients Have To Say:

(Note: Clients names and photos have been changed to protect client confidentiality)


Over the years, I believe that I have seen a total of 7-8 counsellors. Without any shred of exaggeration, my experience with Alastair was by far the best. He was extremely helpful and he really truly did change my situation at the time completely into a positive direction. I have recommended him to many people since. I will never forget what he did for me, and all I need to do is think about him and it renews my faith in people and that they can care and make a difference and things can change.


Couples counselling has been one of the best experiences we have been through as a couple. I have learned how to control my anger in arguments and I am listening to my partner far more than I have before. We are much closer as a couple and look forward to our future together.


Alastair has helped me deal with my relationship separation. He has helped me realise that I do have a meaningful future and he has supported me while I have got my life back together. I cannot thank him enough!

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"The Best Investment We Have Made"

My clients often tell me that relationship counselling has been the best investment that they have made as a couple. Even one session of relationship counselling can help couples deal with issues that they have ignored for too long. To find out whether relationship counselling is for you, book a FREE 15 minute phone consultation with me now, or book relationship counselling now.