To build a more loving, passionate and connected relationship it is important to realize that the approach that you have been taking to your relationship to date has just not been working.

In many ways this is not your fault.

Few of us are taught the secrets to creating a loving, passionate and connected relationship, and if you do not know what these secrets are there is little you can do to fix your relationship.

To build a more loving, passionate and connected relationship with each other often you need to seek professional help from a relationship counsellor like myself.

Over the last 30 years I have helped thousands of couples rebuild their relationships. I know from this experience what helps couples and what doesn't.

For most couples that I see I can identify the patterns that are leading to their relationship dysfunction very quickly, and I can help the couples change these patterns in a transparent, non-biased way.

For most couples I see this is not something that they can do themselves. They need expert help.

There are some simple steps that any couple can take to improve their relationship, whatever issues they are facing.

These steps include spending quality time together, learning better ways to communicate with each other, having regular relationship meetings, practicing better greetings and partings and so forth.

In just one or two counselling sessions I can teach you what these steps are and how to apply them in your relationship.

Once I have done this most couples improve their relationship quickly, meaning that they can resolve more complex relationship issues far more effectively.